Family Update

Wheh!  What a month!  Exciting things are happening at The Journey, and it feels weird to be on the “outside” of things, but the nice thing is that none of us are really on the “outside”.  They keep us all posted on things like the Agency Blog and all of the staff blogs.  I loved this past series, and didn’t the band rock on Sunday!?

An update:

1 – Paul’s store is moving so he’s been working everyday from morning until 9pm or even last night until 2am.  I’ll be glad when it’s all done.  It’s been crazy to say the least.  I have to give props to single mothers.  Don’t know how you do it!  A few months ago I had no idea this would be happening.  It’s funny to see how God just had his hand in everything.  His timing is perfect.

2 – The kids are growing like crazy and we’re trying to keep a healthy home.  I guess just having 2 kids and a hubby in retail it’s hard not to have sickness in the house.  I’ve had to miss church more this year due to illness than I think I ever have.  It’s crazy.  I can’t wait until spring.  My sister just says to be grateful that their getting their immune systems up.

3 – I may be heading to TN to see some of my college friends.  I’m not sure how that will work with just me and the 2 kids.  Any words of advice?

4 – Did I say that I can’t wait for spring?  =)

5 – I’m excited for all that’s going on at The Journey and really am grateful to have been a part of the staff for the time I was. I do miss it, but as you can tell, it’s a crazy time and I just am not sure if I could’ve done this all.  I’m glad to be able to be at home with my kiddos!

Thank you, Gracias, Grazie

Thank you Journeyers for the opportunity to work alongside you and lead Journey Kids.  It has been an amazing 3.5 years to say the least.  A lot has happened in those few years and many of you have been a part of that!  Thank you.

If you haven’t read the Journey’s annual update letter I’ll catch you up to date.  I’m resigning to be a stay at home mom with my 2 munchkins.  It was a hard decision to make with lots of tears.  Paul, Eliana, Micah and I are not going anywhere.  Mr. D. will still be in the 2s room on Sunday, and eating animal crackers.  We’ll still be there to love on kids right alongside all of the other awesome, amazing and dedicated Journey Kids volunteers.  Who knows?!  Maybe God will have me jump back in after awhile.  All I know now is that sometimes God calls us to make difficult decisions, but He will walk with us through it all.  It’s ironic that this series we’re in is called CHANGE (missed a Sunday?  Check it out here.)  So, being the me I want to be (God wants me to be) right now is to be a wife and mom to my 2 kids at home.

Thank you for walking with us through the birth of Eliana, my brain tumor, and the birth of Micah.  If you would have asked me 4.5 years ago where I thought I’d be right now, I couldn’t even have imagined this.  Being a part of a community of people taking next steps with Jesus, serving alongside each other to show Jesus to others!  Wow!  So, see you Sunday early.  I’ll be sippin’ my coffee alongside all of you.

By the way, a huge shout-out to Selena Radosa who is jumping in and keeping Journey Kids rolling.  She has an amazing heart for volunteers and kids.  If you don’t know who she is, ask and introduce yourself.  Get plugged in and share God’s love with our littlest Journeyers.  It’s eternity we’re talking about.

I’ll still be blogging here, just probably not linked from the church website anymore.  I’ll still be sharing some thoughts and ideas if you’re interested you can bookmark or “follow” on the right.

Do everything….

I’m going to tell you how to do everything in your life!  (We live in such a society today that we cram too much in.  That’s not what this is about.  That’s a whole other post.)  Take a minute and read these verses.

14 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” (Philippians 2:15-15 – in the NIV version)

14-16Do everything readily and cheerfully—no bickering, no second-guessing allowed! Go out into the world uncorrupted, a breath of fresh air in this squalid and polluted society. (Philippians 2:15-15 – The Message version)

Easy, right!?   Well not really….

It’s so easier to get into the mode of complaining. “I’m so busy.”  “Cleaning up puke again!?  You’ve got to be kidding me!”  “Why can’t he just wake up and take care of this baby for an hour!”  They are driving WAY to slow in the passing lane – idiots”  “That is more than 12 items in the express lane!” and so on….

Whether we say it out loud or just to ourselves in the middle of the night grumbling does nothing but bring us down and those around us….Let alone the fact that if we call ourselves followers of Jesus – what does that show others?  (How do I look to the people around me?  Am I pushing others further away from Jesus by the complaining words I say?  Don’t get me wrong – God’s bigger than me.  He changes hearts, but I don’t wanter get in the way….I’d rather be used.)

It makes me think of these verses (bold emphasis mine)….

43 “No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. 44Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. 45 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.

It’s not necessarily about controlling our words and attitudes ourselves.  It’s about our hearts, and we can’t change our hearts without God’s help and asking Jesus to forgive us.  God’s the heart changer.

A few questions I’m asking myself after reading, reflecting and praying on these verses:

What fruit am I producing right now?  Where is my strength coming from?  What is my heart full of?  Am I being a breath of fresh air to others or am I taking the oxygen out of the air with my words?  Do people see Jesus in me?

NOTE:  I use http://www.biblegateway.com to look up verses and do daily readings because I can switch versions to better understand some things sometimes.

They’re wa-atching you!

As you focus on the real meaning of Christmas, remember to include your kids.

If you spend your time focusing on the “best deals” ~ they’ll learn to do that from you.

If you spend your time picking out what you want for Christmas ~ they’ll learn to do that from you.

If you are spending less to give more ~ they’ll learn to do that from you.

If you volunteer your time to help the poor/elderly/widowed/orphaned ~ they’ll learn to do that from you.

If you invite a friend to join you on Christmas Eve ~ they’ll see that and learn to do that from you.

Let’s teach our kids the real reason why we celebrate December 25th.  The birth of Jesus, who brings us hope, love, joy, and forgiveness!  What a time to celebrate our Savior!

 

It’s official

I’m weird.

Check out this post  on Children’s Ministry Online.

It’s about me.  Yep, in case you ever wondered about me, now you know for sure!  I’m weird.

I started reading the George Barna book “Revolutionary Parenting” this weekend and will let you know how it goes.  (Actually, it kept me up last night).

And the bidet – it is cleaning our kids diapers great!

Oh, and one more thing, Kenny’s blog and a bunch of others are always linked on my sidebar.  Check them out!

Not an hour….eternity

Talking with people this week made me realize how quickly people can loose sight of what we do in Journey Kids.  Without the vision and “keeping the end in mind” a lot of volunteers can forget why they get up an hour early during the week, or come in and fill out supply buckets once a month.  The hour a week that volunteers are investing in our kids is not just to ‘babysitting’. It’s all about eternity.  We have to make sure we keep the end in mind.  What will really matter in 100 years?  The extra hour of tv or sleep?  Or could it be seeing kids trust in Jesus for the first time.  Showing kids God’s love.  Letting God use you in the life of another.

Remember that when you’re changing diapers or calming down a group of 3rd graders.  It’s more than just about us.  It’s BIGGER than that.  It’s all about an eternity with Jesus.