I’m going to tell you how to do everything in your life! (We live in such a society today that we cram too much in. That’s not what this is about. That’s a whole other post.) Take a minute and read these verses.
14 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” (Philippians 2:15-15 – in the NIV version)
14-16Do everything readily and cheerfully—no bickering, no second-guessing allowed! Go out into the world uncorrupted, a breath of fresh air in this squalid and polluted society. (Philippians 2:15-15 – The Message version)
Easy, right!? Well not really….
It’s so easier to get into the mode of complaining. “I’m so busy.” “Cleaning up puke again!? You’ve got to be kidding me!” “Why can’t he just wake up and take care of this baby for an hour!” They are driving WAY to slow in the passing lane – idiots” “That is more than 12 items in the express lane!” and so on….
Whether we say it out loud or just to ourselves in the middle of the night grumbling does nothing but bring us down and those around us….Let alone the fact that if we call ourselves followers of Jesus – what does that show others? (How do I look to the people around me? Am I pushing others further away from Jesus by the complaining words I say? Don’t get me wrong – God’s bigger than me. He changes hearts, but I don’t wanter get in the way….I’d rather be used.)
It makes me think of these verses (bold emphasis mine)….
43 “No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. 44Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. 45 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.
It’s not necessarily about controlling our words and attitudes ourselves. It’s about our hearts, and we can’t change our hearts without God’s help and asking Jesus to forgive us. God’s the heart changer.
A few questions I’m asking myself after reading, reflecting and praying on these verses: